Resolution Readjustment

Well,
A good friend of mine informed me that my resolutions might not have been thought all the way through. I have spent the better part of a week thinking about what they said. Well, technically, what the one that was "limiting" me said.

1. Single for a year.
   
   I do not plan on pursuing any relationship that generally ends up in bed. If you are in my life, you are a friend, and that's all I am hoping for this year. I realized I haven't spent a year by myself in too long. So this is it for me. I want friends, lots of them... but nothing serious... not this year.
   

The re-write should go like so...

1. Slow for a year.
   
   I do not plan on rushing through ANY relationship. If that relationship finds me romantically entangled with someone? Then I will be aware of the dangers of rebounds, the tenderness of my heart, and my concern over being alone. Carefully, Slowly, and with a relaxed mood. No rushing into anything, no White Knight episodes where the outcome is enmeshment versus healthy relationships. I want friends, I have to rebuild my support network, but that doesn't mean I have to cut out love. Especially if the universe is trying to throw me a bone. (and no, that was not a sexual reference)